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December
17, 2010
Subject: 10 Mystic Tips
for
Dealing with
A-holes
You've
experienced it. Perhaps with a
coworker, a
neighbor, or even a relative. You
try
to get along with the bully to keep the peace,
but they
always manage to get under your skin
and you react,
sometimes not so nicely.
You avoid them as much as possible. But for
those times
when you have no choice, we offer
the
suggestions below to help you handle them
peacefully
and from the
perspective of a mystic
rather than
allowing them to add more stress to
your life or
worse.
1)
Consider why they are difficult: Usually
there's
at least one hidden reason. Frequently,
very
difficult people have endured early life
trauma,
are currently coping with deep
personal challenges and, or have drug and
alcohol problems, to name a few possible
issues.
To make things worse, we believe
many
such people, during times of duress,
are
negatively influenced by dark energy--
call
it demonic possession or influence if you
want,
or extreme subconscious defenses
and
fears surfacing--whatever it is, our
findings
tell us that often times it's very
difficult
for some people to see beyond
themselves
and understand how their
actions
are negatively influencing those
around them.
2)
Acceptance: Once you put yourself in their
shoes
and understand the "why," it's easier to
have
at least a little compassion for them, see
them
as damaged goods, and not take their
actions
so personally.
3)
Drop expectations: Don't expect them to
treat
you well or even reasonably. It's not your
right
to control anyone. You can try to help
someone become
more aware of their behavior
and the consequences,
but you cannot change
them.
4)
Retain your dignity: When you react adult-
like
with a reasonable tone, confidence, and
compassion,
there will be no reason for anyone
to
blame you for any disharmony. This
may
enrage
a difficult person whose intent is to
control
you or make you lower yourself to their
level,
but keep your cool and you will come
out
on
top.
5)
Think before speaking: It's better to say
nothing
than to react without thinking when
you're
upset. You can always follow up later
with
a tactful e-mail after you've thought it
through.
6)
Remain positive: A difficult person loves to
target those he or she believes are opposing
their
views, weak, happy, or whatever else
sets
them off. But if you
avoid letting them
drag
you into their misery, they can't help but
eventually
see
the errors of their ways. Let
them
be and all will be seen in the Light of
truth
eventually.
7) Limit the
alcohol and take steps to moderate
excessive
stress through good sleep, exercise,
and
watching your diet. Inner demons come out
to
play under the influence or when you're worn
down
mentally or physically, so watch your step.
8)
Be grateful for the opportunity. It may seem
odd
to be grateful for toxic people, but
expressing gratitude will make it much easier
to
rise above the
situation. Also, think
of all you
gain
from difficult
people, such as
patience,
compassion,
how not to treat others and
excellent
negotiating skills.
9) Arm
yourself spiritually. Not to battle, but to
protect yourself
and encourage peace and
harmony. Spiritual
help is available to you
whenever you
need it, but you need to ask.
We like to
call upon Archangels Michael and
Sandalphon to
stand on either side of us as
body guards,
but you can utilize God or other
angels and
guides. Make sure to request that
they be "of
the Light," or you could just stir up
more trouble.
10) Avoid
revenge: We realize it may
sometimes seem
easier to use an aggressive
warrior approach
with the jerks of the world,
but since you
don't want to create negative
karma, you'll
be better off playing the adult
role and
simply allowing them to act like
children. Our findings firmly show karma
exists,
so even if
they don't get caught, they
will get what's
coming to them eventually,
most likely in
a future life. You don't want to
have
to incarnate again with this person, do
you?
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