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July
1, 2011
Subject: Sidestep This Terrible New
Age Marketing
Trap: Find Your Soul Mate
in 90 Days or Less
You never want to be caught in the trap of
thinking
you can conjure up your "soul mate"
in 90 days
or less by following a New Age snake oil
protocol.
Ready, set, go. You now have 90 days to
find
the
love of your life. What a terrible
approach to
love.
Just like square-dancing, you'll twirl
your way
into
the arms of the closest participant, but
unlike
that
dance, you'll have to remain together
forever.
And
because you're too focused on your agenda,
too
focused on casting a play, the fact that
you
two
aren't really compatible won't be obvious
until
the
illusion and excitement fade.
Being caught in this trap won't help you
find a
compatible love relationship partner. In
fact,
it will
make you miss your best matches.
You're not alone if you've fallen for this
ruse. You
see that the promoters are best-selling
authors,
they've been on high-profile talk shows,
and
their
"heart-centered" communications
obscure (by
design) the fact that, when examined more closely,
this is an incredibly disingenuous
approach to love.
How to Escape This Trap
The best way to avoid this trap is to
acknowledge
these 5 truths:
1. You can't force love. It happens when
it's
supposed to happen. Absolutely make
yourself
available, socialize, and be receptive to
new
romantic opportunities. Just be aware of
the
idea
that if it's not meant to be within 90 days, it's not
meant to be.
However, if you insist, you can use
control and
manipulation to make someone (e.g., a eunuch)
do your bidding and create the illusion of
a "soul
mate" connection, as many "love life
experts" do
themselves. But that's nothing to do with
unconditional
love and, in time, you'll be very
unhappy with this approach.
It's apparent to us, when observing the love lives,
and delineating the timing and, or karma of the
"experts" who claim
you can find your "soul
mate" if you follow their advice, that
most are
either fooling themselves or intentionally
living a
lie in an attempt to impress their
customers
and
promote the "90 days or less" myth.
2. Attempting to identify and mitigate any
personality blocks that interfere with what you
want for your love life so that you may
rise to a
new level of being is an admirable concept, but
one that's fraught with steep challenges.
You need
authentic methods (e.g., handwriting
analysis)
to
identify subconscious blocks, not the
"simply
monitor your thoughts and identify all
your
issues"
nonsense. Also, the programming and
negative
subconscious fears won't go away overnight, and
the subconscious defenses are very likely to stay
with you forever. Therapy and hypnosis audios
can help the healing process along.
3. Even if a person does manage to overcome a
lot of their blocks, their overall karma and timing
may reflect a terrible landscape for romantic affairs.
Thus, they're fated to endure an abysmal love life,
at least for a time. Anyone who says you can
simply bypass your love karma and have whatever
you want (if you buy their book, of course) is either
lying or simply lacks understanding of key spiritual
tenets such as karma, predestination, and destiny
(which is the same thing as fate, by the
way).
4. The time isn't right for a good reason.
Look
at it
this way: you should be glad that you're not attracting
your best soul mate right now so that you can take
care of the other parts of your life first, and prepare
for your heart's desire when the time is
right (fated).
5. The more you focus on deepening your self-love,
self-improvement, and the utter acceptance and
enjoyment of your time alone, the more likely you
are closer to finding the love of your life. The worst
position you can be in is to be in a constant state of
\desperation toward finding your "other half." Don't
forget, as Stephen says, "Two halves make a
dysfunctional mess." Try not to buy into the hype that
you need to be partnered in order to be happy. Be
strong--self love is the
most authentic form of true love.
The free e-book http://moregooddates.com/
illustrates the top 77 Biggest On-line
Dating
Mistakes, and includes a ton of other
valuable
information to help you find a compatible
love
match.
You can't manifest a rewarding soul mate out of thin
air if the time isn't right for you, no matter what the
"experts" say. The erroneous notion and dreadful
trap is an artificial, commercial approach to love that
could potentially ruin your life. Following our advice
above will help you to avoid this trap and, eventually,
experience satisfaction in your
love life.
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